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û¼Ò³âÀ» À§ÇÑ È¸º¹ 12 ´Ü°è (Teenager's 12 Step Guide)
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1.
û¼Ò³âµéÀÇ ¾Ë°í ½Í¾îÇÏ´Â ¿å±¸ (Kids want to learn)
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1970 ³â´ëºÎÅÍ, ¾ËÄڿà ȸº¹¸ðÀÓÀÇ 12´Ü°è
ȸº¹ ÇÁ·Î±×·¥À» Àû¿ë ÇÏ´Â ¿©·¯ Áßµ¶È¸º¹¸ðÀÓ¿¡ û¼Ò³âµéÀÇ
ȸº¹Âü¿©°¡ Á¡Á¡ ´õ ¸¹¾ÆÁö±â ½ÃÀÛÇÏÀÚ, AA ȸº¹³»¿ëµµ À̵éÀ» À§Çؼ ¼öÁ¤ÀÌ
ºÒ°¡ÇÇÇØÁ³À¸¸ç, ÀÌ Á¦´Â Áß °íµîÇб³ Çлý ÀÌ»óÀÇ Ã»¼Ò³âµéÀÌ
¼¼°èµµÃ³¿¡¼ 12 ´Ü°è ȸº¹ ÇÁ·Î±×·¥¿¡ ´ë°Å Âü ¿©ÇÏ°í
ÀÖ´Â ½ÇÁ¤ÀÌ´Ù.
Starting in the 1970s, more and more teenagers began attending
recovery meetings using AA 12 Step program, the makeup of
AA changed. Now young people from junior and senior high school
ages up are participating in the 12 Step recovery program
throughout the world.
û¼Ò³âµéÀÌ Âü¿©Çϴ ȸº¹ ±â°üµéÀº ´ëºÎºÐ ¾ËÄÚ¿Ã 12 ´Ü°è ȸº¹
¿ø¸®¸¦ Àû¿ëÇÏ°í ÀÖÀ¸¸ç, À̵é û¼Ò³â Á¹¾÷»ýµéÀÌ ¾à¹°
»ç¿ë, ¶Ç´Â Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§ Áß´Ü°ú Áö¼ÓÀûÀΠȸº¹À» Çϱâ À§Çؼ´Â, 12 ´Ü°è ȸº¹¿ø¸®¿¡ µû¶ó¼ °è¼Ó
»ýÈ°ÇÏ°í ¼ºÀåÇØ¾ß ÇÑ´Ù´Â °ÍÀ» ¾Ë°Ô µÇ¾ú´Ù.
Many of these programs are based firmly on AA's 12 Steps,
and the young graduates have come to know that their sobriety
and their ongoing recovery depend on their continuing to live
and grow with these principles.
¿ì¸®µéÀº ¾î·ÈÀ» ¶§, »¡¸® ¼ºÀåÇؼ ´õ¿í Å©°í, º¸´Ù
½º¸¶Æ®ÇØ Á®¼, ¿ì¸®µéÀÇ »î°ú Àλý¿¡ ´ëÇÑ ¸¹Àº À̾߱⸦
ÇÏ°í ½Í¾î Çß´Ù. ÀÌ·¸°Ô ÀÚ²Ù¸¸ ´õ ¾Ë°í ½ÍÀº ¿å±¸
¶§¹®¿¡, ¿ì¸®µéÀº ´Ã »õ·Î¿î Ä£±¸µéÀ» »ç±Í±â¸¦ ¿øÇß°í,
»õ·Î¿î Àå¼Ò¿¡ °¡º¸°í ½Í¾ú°í, »õ·Î¿î
¼ºÃë°¨À¸·Î µé¶á »ýÈ°ÇßÀ¸¸ç, ¿ì¸®µéÀº Àå·¡°¡ ¹«Áö°³
ºû°ú ¸ðÇè½ÉÀ¸·Î¸¸ °¡µæ Âù °Í °°¾Æ ¸¶³É ¾Õ¸¸ ¹Ù¶óº¸±â¸¦
ÁÁ¾Æ Çß´Ù.
When we were little kids, we looked forward to growing up,
getting bigger, getting smarter, having more to say about
our lives and how we live. We want to learn. We were excited
about new friends, new places, new accomplishments. We liked
looking ahead because our tomorrows seemed to be full of rainbows
and adventures.
¿ì¸®µé
ÀÇ ¹«Áö°³ ºûÀÌ ¾î¶»°Ô µÇ¾ú³ª?
What happened to our rainbows? |
- ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ¿î¸íÀ» Àß ÅëÁ¦¸¦ ÇÏ°í ÀÖ´Â °ÍÀ¸·Î
»ý°¢ÇßÀ» ¶§¿¡, ÀÌ¹Ì ¿ì¸®µéÀÇ »îÀº ¼Ó¼ö¹«Ã¥ÀÌ µÇ¾î¹ö·Á¼,
½ÇÁ¦·Î Á¤»óÀûÀÎ »îÀ» »ì ¼ö°¡ ¾ø¾ú´Ù. »îÀÌ ÀÌÁö°æÀÌ
µÇ±â±îÁö´Â ħ´ë¸¦ Á¦´ë·Î Á¤µ·ÇÏÁö ¸øÇß°í, ÁöºÒ°íÁö¼µéÀ»
Á¦¶§ ÁöºÒÇÏÁö ¾Ê¾ÒÀ¸¸ç, Çб³ °úÁ¦µéÀ» Á¦´ë·Î
¸øÇؼ, ºÎ¸ð´ÔÀ̳ª ¼±»ý´Ôµé·ÎºÎÅÍ ±âºÐ ³ª»Û ²ÙÁö¶÷¸¸
µé¾î, ÁÖÀ§»ç¶÷µé°úÀÇ °ü°è¼ºµµ ÇູÇÏÁö ¸øÇß´Ù.
Just when we thought we were gaining some control over our
own destines, our lives got out of hand. In fact, they became
unmanageable. To sum up the situation, our days were full
of unmade beds, unpaid bills, undone school assignments,
unpleasant confrontations, and unhappy relationships.
- ±×·¡¼ ´ëºÎºÐ ¿Ü·Î¿üÀ¸¸ç, »ç¶÷µé°ú ÇÔ²² Áö³Â¾îµµ,
ÀϺλç¶÷µé°ú °°ÀÌ ¿ì¸®µéÀº ¾ËÄÚ¿ÃÀ̳ª, °¨Á¤À» º¯È½ÃÄÑÁÖ´Â ÇàÀ§µé,
¶Ç´Â ±âºÐÀ» ´õ ÁÁ°Ô ÇØ ÁØ´Ù°í »ý°¢µÇ´Â ¸¶¾à·ùµéÀ»
½ÃµµÇÏ¿´´ø °ÍÀÌ´Ù.
And we were lonely a lot of the time, even in the middle
of a crowd. We, like some others, had tried alcohol, other
mood changing behaviors, drugs that made us feel better
or we thought. We didn't always like the way we felt.
- º¸´Ù ±âºÐÀ» ÁÁ°Ô ÇØ ÁÙ ¼ö ÀÖ´Â ÀϵéÀº, ¹«¾ð°¡
»õ·Î¿î °ÍÀ» Çغ¸°í, ¹«¾ð°¡ ¸ÚÁø ÀÏ·Î ½Ã°£À»
º¸³»¸ç, Á» ¹ÌÄ£ µíÀÌ ½Ç·Ê¸¦ ÇÏ´Â °ÍÀ̾úÀ¸¹Ç·Î,
¿ì¸®µéÀº ¸¶¾àÀ̳ª Áßµ¶ÀûÀÎ ÇàÀ§µéÀÌ ±× ÇØ´äÀÎÁٷθ¸
»ý°¢Çß¾ú´Ù.
Part of feeling better was having something new to do, something
that would make us feel cool and in tune with our times,
an excuse for being a little bit crazy. We thought drugs
and addictive behaviors were the answer.
- ±âºÐÀ» ÁÁ°Ô ÇØ ÁÙ ¼ö ÀÖ´Â ¶Ç ´Ù¸¥ ÀÏÀº È¥ÀÚ¼ ¿Ü·Ó°Ô
Áö³»Áö ¾Ê´Â ÀÏÀ̾úÀ¸¹Ç·Î, ¿ì¸®µéÀº ¾î´À ±×·ì¿¡
¼Ò¼ÓµÇ±â¸¦ ¿øÇß°í, ¸¶Ä§ ±× ±×·ìÀº ¸¶¾àÀ» ÇÏ´Â
±×·ìÀ̾î¼, µ¿·áµé ¸ðµÎ°¡ ¸¶¾àÀ» ÇÏ´Â
°Í °°±â ¶§¹®¿¡ ¸¶¾àÀ» ÇÏ¸é ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ´ú
¿Ü·Ó°Ô µÇ´Â °ÍÀ¸·Î Âø°¢À» ÇßÀ» °ÍÀÌ´Ù.
Part of feeling better was not being lonely. We wanted to
belong to a group, and maybe that group did drugs. We thought
doing drugs would make us less lonely, especially since
everybody seemed to be doing drug.
- ±Þ±â¾ß ¿ì¸®µéÀº ¾à¹°À» °æÇèÇϱ⠽ÃÀÛÇؼ, ¸¶¾àÀ»
ÇÇ¿ì°í, ºÎ¸ðÀÇ ¼ú Áø¿Àå¿¡¼ ¼úÀ» ¸ô·¡ ÈÉÃÆ°í,
³ªÀÌ ¸¹Àº ¾ÖµéÀ» ½ÃÄѼ ´ë½Å ¼úÀ» »ç¿À°Ô Çß¾ú´Ù.
ºñ·Ï ¸¶¾à°ú Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§µé·Î ½ÇÁ¦·Î ¹®Á¦°¡ µÇ¾î ÆäÀÎÀÌ
µÇ¾î°¡´Â °ÍÀ» ¾Ë¸é¼µµ, ¿ì¸®µéÀº ¸Å·ÂÀÌ
ÀÖ°í, ¹®Á¦µé·ÎºÎÅÍ ¾ÈÀüÇÒ °ÍÀ¸·Î¸¸
»ý°¢Çß¾ú´Ù. ¿ì¸®µéÀº Á¤¸» ³Ê¹«³ª Àþ¾ú°í, ³Ê¹«³ª
Æò¹üÇؼ, ³ª»Û Ä£±¸µé°ú ÇÔ²² ¾î¿ï¸±
¼ö¹Û¿¡ ¾ø¾ú´Ù.
We started by experimenting, smoking dope, stealing liquor
from our parent's cupboards, talking older kids into buying
bottles for us. Although we'd seen burn-outs get into real
trouble with drugs and addictive behaviors, we thought we
were charmed, somehow immune to the problems. We were too
young, too ordinary, too together to get hooked.
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2.
¹®Á¦ ±×¸®°í ¹®Á¦µé (Problems build up) - 5 D's
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¾à¹°»ç¿ë°ú Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§µéÀÌ °¡¼ÓȵǸé¼, Á¡Á¡ ´õ ´ÙÀ½¹ø
¼úÀÚ¸®³ª ±× ´ÙÀ½ ¾à¹°ÆÄƼ¸¦ ÀÚ²Ù¸¸ »ý°¢ÇÏ´Â
¿ì¸®ÀÚ½ÅÀ» ¹ß°ßÇßÀ¸¸ç, ±×·²¼ö·Ï Ã¥ÀÓ°¨À̳ª
Àΰ£°ü°è, ±×¸®°í ¿ì¸®µéÀÇ ¹Ì·¡¿¡ ´ëÇÑ ¹«Áö°³ ºû ²ÞÀº
ÀÚ²Ù¸¸ ÀÛ¾ÆÁö±â¸¸ Çß´Ù.
As our use of chemicals and addictive behaviors accelerated,
we found we were thinking more and more about the next drink
or next joint, and less and less about responsibilities, relationships,
and those future rainbows.
Áý°ú Çб³»ýÈ°¿¡ ¹®Á¦°¡ °è¼Ó ½×À̱⠽ÃÀÛÇؼ, ¿ì¸®µéÀÇ
»îÀÌ ±Þ¼Óµµ·Î È¥µ·(ûèÔÇ) ¼ÓÀ¸·Î ¸»·Áµé¾î°¡´Â µ¥µµ,
¿ì¸®µéÀº ±×·± À§ÇèÇÑ »óȲÀ» °ÅÀÇ ¾Ë¾ÆÂ÷¸®Áö ¸øÇÑ´Ù.
³ªÁß¿¡ ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ¾ËÄÚ¿Ã º´, ¾à¹°ÀÇÁ¸, ÀÎÅÍ³Ý °ÔÀÓ
¶Ç´Â µµ¹Ú°ú °°Àº Áßµ¶¿¡ ºüÁø °ÍÀ» ¾Ë ¼ö ÀÖÀ» ¶§¿¡
°¡¼Å¾ß, °Ü¿ì Áö³ »îÀ» µ¹¾Æº¼ ¼ö°¡ ÀÖ¾î, ±×°£ ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ
ÇØ¿Â »ý°¢°ú ÇàÀ§´Â ¾ÆÁÖ ÀüÇüÀûÀÎ °ÍµéÀÓÀ» ¾Ë ¼ö ÀÖÀ¸¸ç,
ºñ·Ï Á¤µµÀÇ Â÷ÀÌ´Â À־ ¿ì¸®µé ´ëºÎºÐÀº ¡°¾à¹°
ÀÇÁ¸°ú Áßµ¶¹®Á¦ÀÇ 5 °¡Áö D¡°·Î °íÅëÀ» ´çÇØ¿ÔÀ½À» ¾Ë°Ô µÈ´Ù.
Mountains of problem began to pile up at home and at school.
Our lives were spinning into chaos, and we hardly knew it.
Later, when we learned more about disease of alcoholism, chemical
dependency, the addiction like internet game or gamble, we
could look back and see that our thoughts and behaviors were
pretty typical. Most of us, in varying degrees, suffered from
the drug dependency and ¡°addiction 5
D's¡±
¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ¾ËÄÚ¿Ã, ¸¶¾à, ¶Ç´Â ±âŸ Áßµ¶ÀûÀÎ ÇàÀ§µé·Î ¹®Á¦°¡ µÇ¾î Àִµ¥µµ, À̸¦ ºÎÀÎÇϱ⸸
Çؼ, ¿ì¸®µé¿¡°Ô´Â ¾Æ¹«·± ¹®Á¦°¡ ¾ø°í, ¿ÀÈ÷·Á
´Ù¸¥ »ç¶÷µé¿¡°Ô ¹®Á¦°¡ ÀÖ´Ù´Â ½ÄÀ¸·Î ¸»ÇÏ¿´´ø °ÍÀÌ´Ù!
We denied we had a problem with alcohol, drugs, or other addictive
behaviors. We weren't in any trouble - not us!
¿ì¸®µéÀº ¾î¶² »óȲÀ̳ª ´Ù Àß Ã³¸®ÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖÀ» °ÍÀ¸·Î
¹Ï¾ú¾úÁö¸¸, ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ±× ¾î¶² »óȲµµ Á¦´ë·Î ó¸®ÇÏÁö ¸øÇß¾ú´ø °ÍÀÌ
»ç½ÇÀÌ°í, Áø½ÇÀÌ´Ù. ¿ì¸®µéÀº ÀڽŠ¾È¿¡ ÀÖ´Â ¹®Á¦¼º ¸Þ½ÃÁöµéÀ»
±Ø¼ÒÈ ½ÃÅ°´Â ¹Ù¶÷¿¡, ¿ì¸® ÀÚ½ÅÀ» Á¦´ë·Î Æò°¡Çϴµ¥ Áß½ÉÀ»
ÀÒ¾î ¹ö·Á¼, ¿ì¸®ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ ½ÇÆи¦ ¾ËÄÚ¿ÃÀ̳ª
¸¶¾à, ¶Ç´Â Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§ ¶§¹®ÀÌ ¾Æ´Ï¶ó°í ¿ì±â¸ç ´Ù¸¥
°Íµé¸¸ ºñ³ÇÏ¿´´ø °ÍÀÌ´Ù!
We believed we could handle any situation that came along.
But the simple truth was that we weren't handling it very
well. We minimized the messes we got ourselves into, and we
were off base in our assessments of ourselves. We blamed everything
but alcohol, drugs, and addictive behaviors for our screw-ups!
¿ì¸®µéÀº °ÅÁþ¸»À» ¸¹ÀÌ Çß°í, °¡Á·°ú ¼±»ý´Ôµé ¸ð¸£°Ô
¾à¹°»ç¿ëÀ̳ª Áßµ¶ ÇàÀ§¸¦ °è¼Ó Çϱâ À§Çؼ´Â À̾߱⸦
ºÎÇ®·Á¼ º¯¸íÇؾ߸¸ Çß´Ù. ±×·¡¼ ¾à¹°À̳ª ±âŸ Áßµ¶À¸·Î ¹®Á¦°¡
º¹ÀâÇØÁú ¶§±îÁö, ½ÇÁ¦·Î ¿ì¸®µéÀº Á¤Á÷ÇÏ´Ù´Â ÀÚ¶û¸¸À»
´Ã¾î³õ¾Ò´ø °ÍÀÌ´Ù!
We lied a lot, made up elaborate stories to keep our chemicals
using or addictive behaviors doing hidden from our families
and our teachers. And up to the time when we got mixed up
with drugs and addiction most of us were proud of being really
honest!
¸¶¾àÀ̳ª Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§°¡ ¿ì¸®µé¿¡°Ô ½½Ç ÀϵéÀ» ¾ß±âÇÏ°í ÀÖ´Ù´Â
»ç½ÇÀ» ¾Ë°í ³ª¼µµ, Áßµ¶¹®Á¦°¡ ¾ÆÁÖ ¾Ç鵃 ¶§±îÁö, ȸº¹µµ¿ò
¹Þ±â¸¦ ¸î ³¯ , ¸î ÁÖ, ¶Ç´Â ¸î ´Þ°£ Áö¿¬½ÃÄ×´ø
°ÍÀÌ´Ù!
When we did begin to see that drugs or addictive behaviors
were causing us grief, we put off getting help for days, weeks,
or months until getting even worse!
5)
¹«°ü½ÉÇÑ Åµµ (Don't care attitudes) |
Áßµ¶¹®Á¦°¡ ½É°¢ÇÏ°Ô ÁøÇàµÇ¾úÀ» ¶§¿¡´Â, ¼ÖÁ÷È÷ ¸»Çؼ
¿ì¸®µéÀº ´ÙÀ½¹ø ¾à¹°À̳ª Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§¸¦ ÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ´Â ÇÑ,
¿ì¸®µé¿¡°Ô ¹«½¼ ÀÏÀÌ ÀϾµç »ó°üÇÏÁö¸¦ ¾Ê¾Ò´Ù. ´Ù¸¸
¸¶¾àÀ̳ª Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§¸¦ ÅëÇÑ ÁÁÀº °¨Á¤Ãß±¸°¡ ¿ÀÁ÷ ¿ì¸®
»î¿¡¼ °¡Àå Áß¿äÇÑ ºÎºÐÀÌ µÇ¾ú´ø °ÍÀÌ´Ù.
If the disease had progressed for enough, we honestly didn't
care what happened to us as long as we could set up out next
highs. The high from drugs or addictive behaviors became the
most important part of our lives.
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3.
ȸº¹°ú HOPE ±ÛÀÚÀÇ ÀǹÌ(Recovery & HOPE letters)
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- ±×°£ ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ¡°ÁÖüÇÒ ¼ö ¾ø´Â Ã浿½ÉÀ̳ª °¹Ú°ü³ä¡±À¸·Î
¾îµÒ ¼Ó¿¡¼¸¸ »ì¾Æ¿Í¼, ȸº¹µ¹ÆÄ´Â º¸´Ù dz¿ä·Ó°í
»õ·Î¿î »îÀ¸·Î ȸº¹¿©ÇàÀ» ½ÃÀÛÇÏ´Â °ÍÀ̶ó°í ¸»ÇÒ
¼ö ÀÖ´Ù. ȸº¹À̶õ ÇÑ ¿©¸§ Ç®Àå¿¡¼ ¼ö¿µÀ» ÇÏ°í
³ª¿Â ´ÙÀ½¿¡ ¶ß°Å¿î ÇÞºûÀ¸·Î ¸ö¿¡ ¹°±â°¡
¸¶¸£´Â °Í°ú °°°í, Â÷°¡¿î ¹ã¹Ù¶÷ÀÌ
ºÎ´Â ³ôÀº »êÀ» ¿À¸£´Ù°¡ ³¯ÀÌ ¹à¾ÆÁö¸é¼ µûµíÇÑ ¹Ù¶÷À» ¸Â´Â
°Í°ú °°¾Æ, ¸¶Ä¡ ±âºÐÀÌ ´Ù½Ã ÁÁ¾ÆÁö´Â ±× ¹«¾ù°ú
°°´Ù°í ºñ±³ÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ¾î, Àü¿¡´Â ´À²¸º¸Áö ¸øÇÑ ÁÁÀº °¨Á¤ÀÌ
¹Ù·Î ȸº¹°¨Á¤ÀÎ °ÍÀÌ´Ù.
When we have lived in the darkness of ¡°an unmanageable compulsion
or obsession,¡± the breakthrough to recovery begins a journey
to a new life far richer that can be told. Recovery is something
like drying off in summer sunshine after a swim in a pool.
Something like walking up in high mountain air as the chill
of night warms into dawn. Something like feeling good again.
Maybe feeling better than ever.
- ȸº¹ÀÇ ÁÖÁ¦°¡ º¯ÈÇÏ´Â °ÍÀÌÁö¸¸, º¯ÈÇϱⰡ
±×¸® ½¬¿î ÀÏÀº ¾Æ´Ï´Ù. Àΰ£ÀÇ
º»ÁúÀº ÀÌ¹Ì ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ÇØ ¿À´ø ÀϵéÀ» ±×´ë·Î °è¼Ó
ÇÏ·Á´Â °æÇâÀ» º¸ÀÌ°Ô ¸¶·ÃÀÌ´Ù. ±×·¯³ª ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ½ÇÁ¦·Î ÁøÁöÇÏ°Ô
»îÀÇ ¹æ¹ýÀ» ¹Ù²Ù·Á°í ³ë·ÂÀ» ÇÑ´Ù¸é,
ȸº¹ 12´Ü°è´Â ¿ì¸®µé¿¡°Ô Èñ¸Á°ú ȸº¹À» °¡Á®´ÙÁØ´Ù.
±×·¯¹Ç·Î ȸº¹Àº »îÀ» µÇã´Â °ÍÀ» ÀǹÌÇϸç, ȸº¹
12 ´Ü°è ½ÇõÀº À̸¦ °¡´ÉÇÏ°Ô ÇØ ÁÙ °ÍÀÌ´Ù.
Change is the issue in the recovery and change is never
easy. The great tendency in human nature is to go on doing
what we're already doing. But if we are really serious about
trying to change the way our life is going, there is hope
and recovery for us in the 12 Steps. Therefore, recovery
means the resumption of life made possible by practicing
the 12 Steps.
- ȸº¹Àº ±×°£ ´ç½Å »îÀÇ ÁúÀ» ¼Õ»ó½ÃÄÑ¿Â ¾à¹°,
ÀÎÅÍ³Ý Ã浿, °¹Ú°ü³ä, ºÒÇÕ¸®ÇÑ ÇàÀ§µéÀ» ¹ö·Á¹ö¸± ¶§¿¡ ºñ·Î¼Ò ½ÃÀ۵ȴÙ.
¶Ç ȸº¹Àº ³¡ÀÌ ¾øÀ¸¹Ç·Î, ¿ì¸® ¸ðµÎ´Â ȸº¹
Áß¿¡ ÀÖ´Â ¼ÀÀÌ´Ù. ¾ó¸¶³ª ¿À·§µ¿¾È ȸº¹ 12´Ü°è¸¦ ÇÏ¿´µçÁö °£¿¡, ¿ì¸®µé ¸ðµÎ´Â ȸº¹°úÁ¤
Áß°£ ¾îµð¿£°¡ ÀÖ´Â °ÍÀÌ´Ù.
Recovery begins when you let go of the chemical substance,
internet impulsion, obsessions, irrational behaviors that
have damaged the quality of your life. Recovery never ends
- we are all recovering people. No matter how long we've
worked the Steps, we are all somewhere in the process of
recovery.
12
´Ü°è¿Í ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥ (12 Steps & Recovery program) |
- 12´Ü°è´Â 70¿© ³â Àü ¾ËÄÚ¿Ãȸº¹¸ðÀÓ Ã¢½ÃÀڵ鿡
ÀÇÇؼ óÀ½ ¸¸µé¾îÁø 12°¡Áö ȸº¹¿ø¸®µé·Î, ±× ÀÌÈÄ ÀÌ È¸º¹¿ø¸®´Â ¸ðµç
´Ù¸¥ ÀÚÁ¶ ȸº¹¸ðÀÓµéÀÌ Ã¤ÅÃÇÏ¿© ¿Í¼, ȸº¹ 12 ´Ü°è´Â ¿©·¯ºÐÀÌ µû¶ó¼
Çϱ⸸ Çϸé ȸº¹µÉ ¼ö Àִ ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥ÀÇ ¡°±âº»ÀûÀÎ
µµ±¸¡± ÀÌ´Ù.
12 Steps are twelve principles of recovery originated more
than seventy years ago by the founders of Alcoholic Anonymous.
Since then these principles have been adapted by all other
self-help programs. The Steps are ¡°the basic tools"
of the recovery program which work if you work them.
- ¹Ý¸é ¡°È¸º¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥¡±À̶õ ±¸Ã¼ÀûÀÌ°í ½ÇÁ¦ÀûÀÎ
¼ºÀå°ú ȸº¹°èȹ¿¡ »ç¿ëµÇ´Â Áý¾àÀûÀÎ ´Ü¾î·Î,
12´Ü°è ȸº¹±×·ì¿¡ Âü¿©ÇÏ´Â »ç¶÷µéÀÌ ±×µéÀÇ ÀÏ»ó»ýÈ°¿¡¼ ȸº¹¿ø¸®¸¦
µû¶ó¼ ÇൿÀ¸·Î ½ÇõÀ» ÀÌÇàÇÏ´Â °ÍÀ» ÀǹÌÇÑ´Ù. ±×·¡¼ ´ç½ÅÀÌ È¸º¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥À» µû¶ó¼
Çϱ⸸ ÇÏ¸é ´ç½ÅÀÇ »îÀº º¯ÈµÉ °ÍÀÌ´Ù.
ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥¿¡ ÀÇÁ¸ÇÏ¸é º¯ÈµÈ´Ù´Â ¸»Àº, ½ÇÁ¦·Î ´ç½ÅÀÌ º¯ÈµÉ
°ÍÀ̱⠶§¹®ÀÌ´Ù.
¡°The Program¡± is a collective word, used to refer to the
specific, practical plan of growth and recovery, the combination
of principles and behaviors practiced by members of 12 Step
recovery groups in their daily lives. Your life will change
if you work the program. Depend on it. And the reason it
will change is that you will be making the changes.
¡°HOPE¡±
´Ü¾îÀÇ ±ÛÀÚ Àû¿ë (Each letter in the word "HOPE") |
- H - Honesty - Á¤Á÷ÇÏÀÚ!
´ç½ÅÀÌ ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ »î¿¡ ´ëÇؼ Á¤Á÷ÇÏÁö ¾Ê´Â ÇÑ, »îÀ»
¿Ã¹Ù·Î »ì¾Æ°¥ ¼ö ¾ø´Ù. ±×·¡¼ ¿ì¸®µéÀº ÀÚÁÖ ½ÇÁ¦ »î¿¡ °¡¸éÀ»
¾º¿ì·Á°í¸¸ ³ë·ÂÇÏ¿© ¿Ô´ø °ÍÀÌ´Ù. ±×·¯ÇÑ °¡ÀåÀ» ¡°¸Á»ó°ú
°ÅºÎ¹ÝÀÀ¡±À̶ó°í ÇÑ´Ù. ¹Ù·Î ÀÌ·± °ÍµéÀÌ ¿ì¸®µéÀÇ
º´À¸·Î, Çö½Ç¿¡ ´ëÇؼ ¿ì¸® ÀÚ½ÅÀ» Á¶·ÕÇϸç,
¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ´ç¿¬È÷ ÇØ¾ß ÇÒ ÀϵéÀ» ¸øÇÏ°Ô ¿ì¸® ÀÚ½ÅÀ» ¼ÓÀÎ °ÍÀÌ´Ù.
you can't put your life in order unless you're willing to
be honest about it. And the truth is that we have often
tried to mask the reality of our lives. Such mask-making
is called "delusion & denial." This is what
our sickness is all about - kidding ourselves about what
is real, and then lying to ourselves about what we can do
about it.
¿ì¸®µéÀº ȸº¹À» ½ÃÀÛÇÑ »ç¶÷µé¿¡°Ô, ¿ÀÁ÷ ±â²¨ÀÌ Á¤Á÷ÇØÁö·Á´Â
¸¶À½À» °®´Â °ÍÀÌ ÇÊ¿äÇÏ´Ù´Â ¸»µéÀ» ÇÑ´Ù. ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ½º½º·Î ¸¶À½À»
¿°í ȸº¹À» ¹Þ¾Æµå¸®Áö ¾ÊÀ¸¸é, ¿ì¸®µéÀÇ È¸º¹¿©ÇàÀº ½ÃÀÛµµ
Çϱâ Àü¿¡ ½ÇÆÐÇϰųª, ½ÇÁ¦·Î Á¦´ë·Î ÁÁÀº »îÀ»
»ì¾Æº¸Áöµµ ¸øÇÏ°í Á×°Ô µÉ °ÍÀÌ´Ù.
For the starters, we need only be willing to learn to become
honest. Until we are willing, our recovery journey is over
before it has begun. Or we may die before we have ever really
lived.
- O - Openness - ¸¶À½À» ¿ÀÚ!
ȸº¹ 12 ´Ü°è¸¦ ½ÃÀÛÇÏ°Ô µÇ¸é¼, ¿©·¯ °¡Áö »õ·Î¿î ¾ÆÀ̵ð¾îµéÀÌ
¶°¿À¸£°ÚÁö¸¸, ¡°»õ·Î¿î ÀÏÀº Ç×»ó Èûµé¡±°Ô ¸¶·ÃÀÌ´Ù.
±×·¡¼ Áßµ¶Áõ¿¡¼ ȸº¹µÇ±â°¡ ¾î·Á¿î °ÍÀÌ´Ù. ȸº¹
12 ´Ü°è¸¦ ÇÏ¸é¼ ¶§·Î´Â ºÐ³ë½É°ú ÁÂÀý°¨À» ÀºÆóÇؾßÇÏ´Â
µÎ·Á¿ò ¶§¹®¿¡ »õ·Î¿î ÀÏÀ» ÇϱⰡ ³Ê¹« µÎ·Á¿ï
¼öµµ ÀÖ´Ù.
In starting off on the 12 Steps, you will come across many
new ideas. "New things are always hard." That's
why it can be so hard to get going. Sometimes we are so
afraid of the newness of the 12 Step program that we cover
up the fear with anger and frustration.
ȸº¹ 12´Ü°è ÇÁ·Î±×·¥Àº ±×°£ ¼ö¹é¸¸ ¸íÀÇ »ç¶÷µéÀ» ±×µéÀÇ »î ¼Ó¿¡¼ °íÅëÀ»
µó°í ÀÏ¾î¼°Ô ÇßÀ¸¸ç, µÎ·Æ±â¸¸ Çß´ø ¸¶À½¿¡ Æò¿ÂÀ»
ã°Ô ÇØ ÁÖ¾ú´Ù. ¹®Á¦ÀÇ ¿äÁö´Â ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥ÀÌ Àß
Àû¿ëµÇ´À³Ä°¡ ¾Æ´Ï¶ó, ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ È¸º¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥À» Àß
ÀÌÇàÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ´À³Ä ÀÏ °ÍÀÌ´Ù. ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥ ÀÚü´Â ¿ì¸®µéÀ» ½ÃÇèÇÏÁö
¾ÊÀ¸¸ç - ¿ÀÈ÷·Á ½ÃÇèÀ» °¡ÇÏ´Â ÃøÀº ¿ì¸®µé
ÀÌ´Ù. ±×·¡¼ ºñ·Ï »õ·Î¿î ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥¿¡ Áï°¢ Æí¾ÈÇÒ
¼ö°¡ ¾ø¾îµµ, ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥ÀÌ Á¦½ÃÇÏ´Â µ¥·Î ¸¶À½À» ¿©´Â °ÍÀÌ
Àý´ëÀûÀ¸·Î ÇÊ¿äÇÏ´Ù.
With the 12 Steps program, so many million of people have
kicked the pain out of their lives and replaced it with
serenity to ever doubt it. The question is not whether the
program works, but whether we will work the program. The
recovery program isn't on trial - we are. So openness to
what is being suggested, even though it is new and therefore
not immediately comfortable, is absolutely necessary.
- P - Patience - Àγ»½ÉÀ» °®ÀÚ!
¾ÆÁÖ Å« ÀºÇ೪¹«°¡ 1 ´ÞÀ̳ª 1³â ¾È¿¡ ±×·¸°Ô Å©°Ô ÀÚ¶õ °ÍÀÌ ¾Æ´Ñ °Íó·³, ¿ì¸®µéµµ ¿ì¸®
½Ä´ë·Î, »ý°¢ ³»Å°´Â ´ë·Î, °¨Á¤ÀÌ ÀÌ´Â µ¥·Î, ÇൿÇÏ°í ½ÍÀº ´ë·Î, ¿ì¸®µéÀÇ »îÀ» »ì¾Æ¿Â
°ÍÀÌ´Ù.
A giant ginkgo tree didn't get the way in a month or a year.
And we have spent all our lives being the way we are, thinking
the way we do, feeling as we do, acting as we do.
º¯ÈµÇ·Á¸é Ç×»ó ½Ã°£ÀÌ °É¸®°Ô ¸¶·ÃÀ̹ǷÎ, ¿ì¸®µéµµ
ȸº¹ ¼ºÀå¿¡ ¹«Ã´ Àγ»ÇØ¾ß Çϸç, ¿ì¸®µéÀÇ È¸º¹¸ñÀû¿¡
´ëÇؼ ÁøÁöÇÒ ÇÊ¿ä°¡ ÀÖ´Ù. ¿¹¿Ü ¾øÀÌ ¿ì¸®µé ¸ðµÎ´Â
ÈǸ¢ÇÑ »ç¶÷À̹ǷÎ, ±×°£ ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ¿ì¸® Àڽſ¡°Ô
ÇØ¿Â °Íº¸´Ù´Â ´õ ÁÁÀº °ÍÀ» ¸¶¶¥È÷ ´©¸± ¼ö ÀÖ¾î¾ß
ÇÑ´Ù´Â »ç½ÇÀ» ¸ðµÎ ¾Ë¾Æ¾ß¸¸
ÇÑ´Ù. ±×·¡¼ ¿ì¸®ÀÚ½ÅÀº Àγ»ÇØ¾ß Çϸç - ¿ì¸®µéÀº
Áö±Ý »ó´çÇÑ ³»Àû ½Î¿òÀ» ÇÏ°í ÀÖ´Â °ÍÀÌ´Ù.
Changes always takes time. We need to learn to be very patient
with our growth and sincere about our purpose. Without exception,
we must need to learn that we are good people, and that
we deserve much better than we are giving ourselves. So
be patient with ourself - we are fighting a considerable
battle.
- E - effort - ³ë·ÂÇսôÙ!
³ë·ÂÇÏÀÚ´Â ¸»Àº ½´ÆÛ¸Ç ¸ð¾ç ¶Ù¾î³ ȸº¹´Þ¼ºÀ» À§Çؼ
¶¡À» ¿©·¯ ¹öŶ È긮¸é¼ ³ë·ÂÇ϶ó´Â Àǹ̰¡ ¾Æ´Ï´Ù.
ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥¿¡¼, ¡°³ë·ÂÀ» Ç϶󡱴 Àǹ̴ ¡°±â²¨ÀÌ¡±
Ç϶ó´Â ¸»ÀÌ´Ù. ±â²¨ÀÌ »õ·Î¿î »ç°í¸¦ ÇÏ°í, ÀÚ¹ßÀûÀ¸·Î
³ë·ÂÇÏ°í, ±ú´ÞÀº ¹Ù¸¦ ÇൿÀ¸·Î ¿Å±â´Â
¼Ö¼±¼ö¹üÀ» Çؾ߸¸ ÇÑ´Ù.
Effort doesn't mean that you have to pour out buckets of
sweat trying to accomplish a superhuman feat. In the recovery
program, "to make an effort" means to be "wiling."
Willing to think new thoughts, willing to try, willing to
act.
ºñ·Ï óÀ½¿¡´Â ȸº¹ÀÌ·ÐÀ» Àß ÀÌÇØÇÒ ¼ö ¾ø°Å³ª,
óÀ½ºÎÅÍ µ¿ÀÇÇÒ ¼ö ¾ø¾îµµ, ±â²¨ÀÌ È¸º¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥À»
½ÃµµÇغ¸·Á´Â ¸¶À½À» °¡Á®º¸µµ·Ï ÇØ¾ß ÇÑ´Ù. »ç½Ç
±â²¨ÀÌ ÇÏ·Á´Â ¸¶À½Àº ´Ù¸¥ °ÍÀ¸·Î ´ëÄ¡ µÉ ¼ö°¡ ¾ø´Ù.
¾Æ¹«¸® ÀܸӸ®¸¦ ±¼¸®°í, À¯´ÉÇÏ°í, Ȳ¼Ò°°ÀÌ ÈûÀÌ ¼¼µµ,
´ç½ÅÀÌ ±â²¨ÀÌ ³ë·ÂÇÏÁö ¾ÊÀ¸¸é, 12´Ü°è ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥À»
Àß ÇÒ ¼ö°¡ ¾ø´Ù.
Even if at first you didn't understand, even if at first
you don't agree - be willing to the recovery program a try.
The fact is that there is no substitute for willingness.
Neither brains nor charm nor the strength of ox can get
you anywhere in a 12 Step program if you aren't willing
to make an effort.
°ú°Å ½À°üÀ» ¾ø¾Ö±â°¡ ¹«Ã´ ¾î·Æ´Ù. °£È¤ °ú°Å ³ª»Û
½À°üµéÀº º¯ÀåµÈ ¸ð½ÀÀ¸·Î ÀÚ²Ù »ì¾Æ³²À¸·Á°í ³ë·ÂÇؼ,
¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ¡°³Ê¹« ÇǷΡ±ÇÑ °Í °°¾Æ ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ¿¡
Âü¿©ÇϱⰡ ½È°í, ¡°³Ê¹« ¹Ù»Û °Í¡±°°¾Æ¼ ÈÄ¿øÀÚ¿¡°Ô
Àüȸ¦ °É±â ½ÈÀ» ¶§¿¡´Â, ¿Ö ±×·± »ý°¢À» ÇÏ´ÂÁö ´ç½ÅÀÇ µ¿±â¸¦
»ìÆ캸¾Æ¾ß¸¸ ÇÑ´Ù. ÀÌ·² ¶§´Â ¾Æ¸¶ ¿¾³¯ ³ª»Û ½À°üµéÀÌ
¸¶À½¼Ó¿¡¼ ´Ù½Ã »ì¾Æ³ª·Á°í ¸öºÎ¸²À» Ä¡°í ÀÖ´ÂÁöµµ
¸ð¸¦ ÀÏÀ̹ǷÎ, ¸¶À½¿¡ ³»Å°Áö ¾Ê¾Æµµ, ¸öÀ» ¿òÁ÷¿©
ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ¿¡ Âü¿©Çϵµ·Ï ÇØ¾ß ÁÁ´Ù. ÀÌ ¼¼»ó¿¡ ¾î´À
°Íµµ ¡°°è¼Ó ³ë·Â¡±ÇÏ´Â µ¥´Â ´çÇÒ Àç°£ÀÌ ¾ø±â ¶§¹®ÀÌ´Ù.
Old habits die hard - sometimes they try to stay alive by
disguising themselves. So if you're "too tired"
to get out to a meeting or "too busy" to give
your sponsor a call, examine your motives. It may be that
the old habit is fighting to stay alive. So learn to move
your muscles, even when you don't feel like it, nothing
pays off like "consistent effort."
´ç½ÅÀÇ Ãʱâȸº¹À» À§Çؼ, Âü¿©Çϴ ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥¿¡
¡°90ÀÏ µ¿¾È Á¤Á÷ÇÏ°Ô, ±â²¨¿î ¸¶À½À¸·Î, Àγ»½ÉÀ» °®°í
³ë·Â¡± ÇØ º¸¾Æ¶ó! ¸¸¾à ±×·¸°Ô ³ë·ÂÀ» ÇØ º¸¾Æµµ ȸº¹ÀÌ Àß µÇÁö ¾Ê´Â´Ù°í »ý°¢µÇ¸é
- °ú°Å Áßµ¶¹®Á¦ °íÅëÀ¸·Î ´Ù½Ã µ¹¾Æ°¡°Å³ª ´Ù¸¥
¹«¾ùÀΰ¡¸¦ ½ÃµµÇÏ°Ç, ±× °ÍÀº ´ç½ÅÀÇ ÀÚÀ¯Àǻ翡
´Þ·Á ÀÖ´Ù.
For your sake, give the recovery program ¡°an honest, open,
patient try for 90 days!¡± If you decide then that the
effort hasn't been worth it - you are free to take back
your pain and try something else.
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4.
ȸº¹ Âü¿©¿Í ȸº¹ 12 ´Ü°è ³»¿ë (The 12 Steps)
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Áßµ¶ÁõÀº
ÁøÇ༺ Áúº´ (Addiction a progressive disease) |
³ªÁß¿¡ ¿ì¸®µéÀº ¾ËÄÚ¿Ã Áßµ¶, ¾à¹°ÀÇÁ¸, ÀÎÅÍ³Ý Áßµ¶,
¶Ç´Â ´Ù¸¥ Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§°¡ ¸¸¼ºÀûÀÌ°í ÁøÇàÀûÀÎ º´À̶ó´Â
»ç½ÇÀ» ¾Ë±â´Â ÇÏÁö¸¸, »óÅ°¡ ÁÁ¾ÆÁö±â º¸´Ù´Â ¿ÀÈ÷·Á ´õ¿í
¾ÇȵǾúÀ» °ÍÀÌ´Ù. ±×·¡¼ Áßµ¶¹®Á¦¸¦ Á¦¶§ ´ëóÇÏÁö
¾ÊÀ¸¸é »ý¸í±îÁö À§ÇèÇØÁö°Ô µÈ´Ù.
Later we learned, too, that the sickness of alcoholism, chemical
dependency, internet addiction, or addictive behaviors is
chronic and progressive. It doesn't get better it gets worse.
If unchecked, it is fatal.
ȸº¹¸ðÀÓÀÌ
ÀÖ¾î ´Ù ÇàÀÌ´Ù(We are lucky to get in recovery meeting) |
±×·¯³ª ¿ì¸®µéÀº ȸº¹¿¡ Âü¼®Çؼ ´ÙÇàÀÌ´Ù. ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ
Âü¿©ÀÚ ´©±º°¡°¡ ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ ¼úÀ» ¸¶½Ã°Å³ª Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§¸¦ ÇÏÁö
¸øÇϵµ·Ï Àß µµ¿ÍÁÖ°í ÀÖÀ¸¹Ç·Î, ¿ì¸®µéÀº ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ¿¡
Âü¿©Çϸé ȸº¹¿¡ ÇÊ¿äÇÑ µµ¿òÀ» ¹ÞÀ» ¼ö ÀÖ´Ù´Â »ý°¢¸¸À»
ÇÏ¸é µÈ´Ù.
But we are the lucky ones. Someone, or a group of people,
cared enough to intervene in our drinking, drugging, doing
addictive behaviors. We accepted the idea that we needed help
in recovery meetings.
ÀÌÁ¦ ¿ì¸®µéÀº ÇູÇÏ°í ¿Ã¹Ù·Î »ýÈ°À» ÇÏ°í ÀÖ¾î,
°¡Á·µé°úµµ Àß Áö³»°í ÀÖ´Ù. ¶ÇÇÑ ¿ì¸®µéÀº ÁÖÀ§ »ç¶÷µé°ú
À§´ëÇÑ Èû°úµµ »õ·Î¿î °ü°è°¡ Çü¼ºµÇ¾úÀ½À» ¹ß°ßÇÏ¿´´Ù.
We're happier, now that we're straight. We're getting along
better with our families. We have found new connections with
other people and with a Higher Power.
¿ì¸®µé¿¡°Ô´Â Áßµ¶¹®Á¦ ¾øÀÌ »ýÈ°ÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ´Â °á½ÉÀ»
Çϵµ·Ï Áö¿øÇØÁÖ´Â ÁÁÀº ȸº¹Ä£±¸µéÀÌ ÀÖ°í, ¿ì¸® ¶ÇÇÑ
±×µéÀÇ È¸º¹À» µ½°í ÀÖ´Ù. ¿ì¸®µéÀÌ Áßµ¶ÁõÀÇ
¼Ó¹Ú¿¡¼ ÀÚÀ¯·Î¿ö Áö¸é¼, »îÀ» ´Ù½Ã ÅëÁ¦ÇÒ
¼ö ÀÖ´Â ½Â¸®ÀÇ »îÀ» »ì¼ö ÀÖ°Ô µÇ¾î, »õ·Î¿î
¹«Áö°³ ²Þµµ °®°Ô µÇ¾ú´Ù.
We have good recovery friends who support our decisions to
stay addiction free, as we support theirs. As we're winning
our freedom from addiction, we're also winning back a measure
of control over our lives. We're even catching sight of some
new rainbows!
ȸº¹
12 ´Ü°è ³»¿ë (The 12 Steps) |
- 1 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®´Â
¾ËÄÚ¿Ã, ¸¶¾à, ÀÎÅͳÝ, ¶Ç´Â ±âŸ Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§µé¿¡ ¹«±â·ÂÇßÀ¸¸ç ¿ì¸® »ýÈ°À» Á¤»óÀûÀ¸·Î ÇÒ ¼ö ¾ø°Ô µÇ¾úÀ½À»
±ú´Ý°í ½ÃÀÎÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
We admitted we were powerless over alcohol, drugs, internet,
or addictive behaviors that our lives had become unmanageable.
- 2 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®´Â
¿ì¸®º¸´Ù ´õ À§´ëÇÑ ÈûÀÌ ¿ì¸®ÀÇ »ý°¢°ú »ýÈ°À» Á¤»óÀûÀ¸·Î µ¹¾Æ¿À°Ô ÇØ ÁÖ½Ç ¼ö ÀÖ´Ù°í ¹Ï½À´Ï´Ù.
Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could
restore us to sanity.
- 3 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®´Â
¿ì¸®°¡ ¹Ï´Â À§´ëÇÑ ÈûÀÇ º¸»ìÇǽɿ¡ ¿ì¸® ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ ÀÇÁö¿Í »îÀ» ¿ÏÀüÈ÷ ¸Ã±â±â·Î °á½ÉÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the
care of God, as we understood Him.
- 4 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®´Â
µÎ·Á¿ò ¾øÀÌ ¿ì¸® ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ µµ´öÀû Àç°íÁ¶»ç¸¦ È®ÀÎÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
- 5 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®ÀÇ
À߸øµÈ »ç½ÇÀ» ¿ì¸® ÀڽŰú ´Ù¸¥ »ç¶÷¿¡°Ô ½ÃÀÎÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being
the exact nature of our wrongs.
- 6 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®´Â
Çϳª´ÔÀÌ ¸ðµç ¼º°Ý»ó ¾àÁ¡µéÀ» ¾ø¾Ö ÁÖ½Ç ¸ðµç Áغñ°¡ µÇ¾ú½À´Ï´Ù.
Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects
of character.
- 7 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®´Â
°âÇãÇÏ°Ô Çϳª´Ô²² ¿ì¸®µéÀÇ ºÎÁ·ÇÑ Á¡µéÀ» ¾ø¾Ö Áֽõµ·Ï °£Ã»ÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
- 8 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®°¡
ÇÇÇظ¦ ÁØ ¸ðµç »ç¶÷µéÀÇ ¸í´ÜÀ» ÀÛ¼ºÇÏ¿© ±×µé ¸ðµÎ¿¡°Ô ±â²¨ÀÌ º¸»óÇϵµ·Ï ÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing
to make amends to them all.
- 9 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®°¡
Á÷Á¢ º¸»óÇÏ´Â °ÍÀÌ ±×µé¿¡°Ô »óó¸¦ ÁÙ °æ¿ì¸¦ Á¦¿ÜÇÏ°í´Â °¡´ÉÇÑ ¾îµð¿¡¼³ª Á÷Á¢ º¸»óÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except
when to do so would injure them or others.
- 10 ´Ü°è - ¿ì¸®´Â
°è¼Ó ÀÚ½ÅÀ» Á¡°ËÇØ ³ª¾Æ°¡¸ç À߸øÀÌ ÀÖ¾úÀ» ¶§´Â Áï½Ã ½ÃÀÎÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong,
promptly admitted it.
- 11 ´Ü°è - ±âµµ¿Í
¸í»óÀ» ÅëÇÏ¿© ÀǽÄÀûÀ¸·Î ¿ì¸®°¡ ¾Æ´Â Çϳª´Ô°ú ´õ¿í °¡±î¿öÁöµµ·Ï Èû¾²¸ç, Çϳª´ÔÀÇ ¶æÀ» ±ú´ÞÀ» ¼ö ÀÖ°í
Çϳª´ÔÀÇ ¶æÀ» ½ÇÇàÇÒ ´É·ÂÀ» ±¸ÇÏ´Â ±âµµ¸¦ ÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious
contact with God, as we understood Him, praying only for
knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that
out.
- 12 ´Ü°è - ȸº¹
´Ü°èµéÀÇ °á°ú·Î ¿µÀû°¢¼ºÀ» ÇÏ¿´À¸¹Ç·Î, ´Ù¸¥ Áßµ¶Àڵ鿡°Ô ÀÌ È¸º¹ ¿øÄ¢À» ÀüÇϵµ·Ï ³ë·ÂÇϸç, ¿ì¸® »îÀÇ
¸ðµç ¿µ¿ª¿¡¼ ÀÌ ¸ðµç ¿øÄ¢À» ½ÇõÇϵµ·Ï ³ë·ÂÇÕ´Ï´Ù.
Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these
steps, we tried to carry this message to other addicts and
to practice these principles in all our affairs.
°è¼ÓÇؼ .... ´ÙÀ½ ȸº¹´Ü°èµéÀ» º¸½Ã±â ¹Ù¶ø´Ï´Ù!
(please keep working for the following Steps)
2. ȸº¹ 1-3 ´Ü°è - ½Å³ä°»½Å ´Ü°è (Belief Steps)
3. ȸº¹ 4-9 ´Ü°è - Çൿº¯È ´Ü°è (Action Steps)
4. ȸº¹ 10-12 ´Ü°è - ȸº¹À¯Áö ´Ü°è (Maintenance
Steps)
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5.
12´Ü°è ȸº¹¿ë¾î (12 Steps recovery glossaries)
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- ȸº¹±×·ì(Recovery group)
´ç½ÅÀÇ È¸º¹±×·ìÀ̶õ, ´ç½ÅÀÌ ¸ÅÁÖ °°Àº ¿äÀÏ È¸º¹¸ðÀÓ¿¡
Á¤±âÀûÀ¸·Î Âü¿©ÇÏ´Â ³²³à ȸº¹Âü¿©ÀÚµéÀÇ È¸ÇÕÀ» ¸»ÇÑ´Ù.
µ¿·á ¸ðÀÓÂü¿©¸â¹öµéÀÌ ´ç½Å°ú ÇÔ²² ȸº¹À» ³ª´©´Â °Í°ú
°°ÀÌ, ´ç½Åµµ ±×µé°ú ³ª´©¸ç, Áö¼ÓÀûÀ¸·Î ¸¸³ª¼,
±×µé°ú ¼·Î¸¦ Àß ¾Ë°Ô µÈ´Ù.
Your group is the fellowship of men and women who regularly
attend the same weekly meeting that you do. As your fellow
members share with you, and you with them, on a continuing
basis, you come to know each other very well.
ºñ·Ï ´ç½ÅÀÌ ¸ðµç ±×·ì¸â¹öµéÀ» ÁÁ¾ÆÇÏÁö ¾ÊÀ» Áö¶óµµ,
´ç½ÅÀº ´Ù¸¥ ¾îµð¿¡¼µµ ã¾Æº¼ ¼ö ¾ø¾ú´ø ½Å·Ú½É °á¼Ó, Á¸°æ½É,
ÇÔ²² ³ª´©°í ½ÍÀº ¸ñÀû µîÀ» ¹ß°ßÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ´Ù.
While you may not like all group members, you will find
a bonding of trust, respect, and shared purpose that can
be found nowhere else.
ÇÑ È¸º¹±×·ì¿¡ Áö¼ÓÀûÀ¸·Î Âü¿©ÇÏ´Â °ÍÀ» Ȩ ±×·ì
¶Ç´Â Ȩ ¹ÌÆà À̶ó°í ¸»Çϸç, ÀÌ ±×·ìÀÌ¾ß ¸»·Î
¸ðµç ȸº¹Âü¿©ÀÚ¿¡°Ô´Â ¹°·Ð óÀ½ Âü¿©ÇÏ´Â »ç¶÷¿¡°Ô °·ÂÇÑ È¸º¹Ã¼Çè°ú
Èû ±×¸®°í Èñ¸ÁÀ» ½É¾î ÁØ´Ù.
Consistent affiliation with such a group, called a home
group or home meeting, is a powerful source of experience,
strength, and hope to the new member as indeed to all members.
- ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ(Recovery meeting)
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¡°12´Ü°è ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ¡± À̶ó°í ĪÇÑ´Ù. ¼·Î ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥ ¿ø¸®µéÀ» ÅäÀÇÇÏ¸é¼ ±×µéÀÇ ÀÏ»ó»ýÈ°¿¡
Àû¿ëÇÏ´Â ÀÏÀº ȸº¹Âü¿©ÀÚµé·Î ÇÏ¿©±Ý »óÈ£ ¾öû³ ȸº¹µµ¿òÀÌ
µÉ ¼ö ÀÖ´Ù.
A regularly scheduled gathering of program people who meet
to support each other's recovery is called a "12 Step
Meeting." By discussing the principles of the Program
as these principles apply to their daily lives, members
are able to be of enormous help to one another.
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ÁÖ Æ÷ÀÎÆ®ÀÌ°í ¸ñÀûÀÌ´Ù. ´Ù¸¥ »ç¶÷ÀÇ Ã¼ÇèÀ»
°æûÇÏ°í, ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ °æÇèÀû »ç½ÇÀ» ¼ÖÁ÷È÷ ¹àÈûÀ¸·Î
¼ ¾çÂÊ ¸ðµÎ°¡ ½ÇÁ¦·Î ȸº¹¼ºÀåÀ» ÇÏ°Ô
µÈ´Ù. ±×·¡¼ ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ Âü¿©¸¸ÀÌ Áß¿äÇÑ È¸º¹ÀÇ °ü°ÇÀ̸ç,
ȸº¹Âü¿©ÀÚµéÀº ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ¿¡ Âü¿©ÇÑ ¸¸Å ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ¿¡¼
¾ò¾î°£´Ù´Â ³í¸®´Â ±×¸® ³î¶ó¿î ÀÏÀÌ ¾Æ´Ï´Ù.
Honest and open sharing is the whole point and purpose of
a meeting. There is real growth in both learning from the
experience of others, listening closely, and in revealing
the truth of your own experience, speaking openly. Participation
is the key. Not surprisingly, people tend to get out of
meetings just about as much as they put into them.
- 12°¡Áö ÀüÅë (Tradition)
12°¡Áö ÀüÅëÀ̶õ ȸº¹¸ðÀÓÀ» °¡Àå È¿°úÀûÀÌ°í À¯ÀÍÇÏ°Ô ¿î¿µÇϱâ
À§ÇÑ 12 °¡ÁöÀÇ °£´Ü¸í·áÇÑ ÁöħµéÀ» ¸»ÇÑ´Ù. ȸº¹
12 ´Ü°è°¡ ȸº¹Âü¿©ÀÚ °¢ °³ÀÎÀ» À§ÇÑ ¡°È¸º¹µµ±¸¡± ¶ó¸é,
12 °¡Áö ÀüÅëÀº ȸº¹±×·ìÀ» À§ÇÑ ¡°¿î¿µµµ±¸¡± ¶ó°í
ÇÒ ¼ö ÀÖ´Ù.
12 simple guidelines for the most effective and beneficial
operation of a group. As the 12 Steps are "tool"
for the individual, the traditions are tools of the group.
- 12´Ü°è ȸº¹¿ø¸® ÀüÆÄ (Twelfth Step call)
À̴ ȸº¹ 12´Ü°è ÇÁ·Î±×·¥ Âü¿©ÀÚ°¡, ȸº¹µµ¿òÀÌ µÉ ¼ö ÀÖ´Â »ç¶÷µé¿¡°Ô ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥À»
¼Ò°³Çϰųª ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ 12´Ü°è ÀÌÇà°ú ȸº¹ºÀ»ç¸¦
À§Çؼ ±×µéÀ» ¹æ¹®ÇÏ´Â °ÍÀ» ¸»Çϸç, 12´Ü°è ¹æ¹®À̳ª 12´Ü°è ÀÌÇàÀº ¾ËÄÚ¿Ã, ÀÎÅͳÝ, ¸¶¾à, ¶Ç´Â
À½½ÄÁßµ¶ÀÚ¿¡°Ô ȸº¹¸Þ½ÃÁö¸¦ ÀüÇØÁÖ¸é¼ À̵éÀ» ȸº¹¸ðÀÓÀ¸·Î
³ª¿À°Ô ÇÏ´Â °ÍÀ̳ª, ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥ ÀÌÇà¿¡ ¾î·Á¿òÀ» °Þ°í ÀÖ´Â ±âÁ¸
ȸº¹Âü¿©ÀÚ¸¦ µ½´Â °ÍÀ» ÀǹÌÇÑ´Ù. ±×·¡¼ 12´Ü°è ȸº¹¿ø¸® ÀüÆĴ ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥ Âü¿©ÀÚµé·Î
ÇÏ¿©±Ý ±×µé ÀÚ½ÅÀÇ È¸º¹À¯Áö¿Í Áßµ¶ÇàÀ§ Áß´Ü¿¡ µµ¿òÀÌ
µÇ±âµµ ÇÑ´Ù.
A visit by a 12 Step program member to introduce or further
explain the Program to someone who could find help through
it. Making a 12 Step call, or 12 Stepping, may mean carrying
the Program's message to a practicing alcoholic, internet,
drug, or compulsive overeater, inviting a newcomer to a
meeting, or helping a person who is having trouble working
the Program. 12 Stepping helps Program members maintain
their own sobriety or abstinence.
- ½½·Î°Ç (Slogans)
½½·Î°ÇÀº ȸº¹¸ðÀÓ Âü¿©ÀÚµéÀÌ ±×µé ÀڽŰú ȸº¹Âü¿©ÀÚµé °£¿¡ ȸº¹ÇÁ·Î±×·¥À»
È¿°úÀûÀ¸·Î ¼öÇàÇϱâÀ§Çؼ ½ÃÀÛÇÏ¿´°Å³ª »ç¿ëÇØ¿Â ¸»,
¸ðÅä, »ó±â¾îµéÀ» ¼öÁýÇÑ °ÍÀÌ´Ù.¿¹¸¦ µé¸é ¡°¸Å»ç¸¦
½±°Ô Çض󡱴 ½½·Î°ÇÀº ȸº¹ÀÚµéÀÌ ±× Àǹ̸¦ »¡¸® ¾Ë¾ÆÂ÷¸± ¼ö ÀÖ´Â Àǹ̽ÉÀåÇÑ
»ó±â¾î ÀÌ´Ù.
A collection of sayings, watchwords, and reminders originated
and used by recovery group members to assist themselves
and each other in "working" an effective Program.
"Easy does it" is an example of one of these quick
and meaningful reminders.
- ÈÄ¿øÀÚ (Sponsorship)
ÈÄ¿øÁ¦µµ´Â ¿À·£ ±â°£ ȸº¹ ÇÁ·Î±×·¥°ú 12 ´Ü°è¸¦
Çؿ ȸº¹ÀÚ À̰ųª ÈÄ¿øÀÚ·Î,
À̵é·Î ÇÏ¿©±Ý »õ·Î¿î ȸº¹Âü¿©Àڵ鿡°Ô ȸº¹¾È³» ºÀ»ç¸¦
ÇÏ°ÔÇÏ´Â °èȹÀÌ´Ù. ±×·¡¼ ÈÄ¿øÀڴ ģ±¸, ºñ¹ÐÀ̳ª ¹®Á¦¸¦ Åоî
³õ¾Æµµ µÉ »ç¶÷, °¢ ȸº¹´Ü°è¿¡ ´ëÇÑ Çؼ³ÀÚ, »õ·Î ȸº¹¿¡ ³ª¿Â Áßµ¶ÀÚ³ª ±×ÀÇ °¡Á·µéÀ»
À§ÇÑ ÈǸ¢ÇÑ È¸º¹ÀÚ¿ø ¿ªÇÒ µîÀ» ÇÏ°Ô µÈ´Ù.
A plan whereby members who have been in the Program and
working the Steps for a longer time serve as guides, or
sponsors, for newer members. A sponsor is a friend, a confidant,
an interpreter of the Steps, and a resource for the newcomer
to the Program and his or her family.
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